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Clinical Sober Circle with Jill & Bouchra

A Body-Based Psychological Approach to Alcohol Recovery for Men

A different way to walk the sobriety path

You got sober, now what?

If you’re alcohol-free but still:

  • White-knuckling stress
  • Irritable under pressure
  • Numb more than you’d like
  • Carrying anger you don’t fully understand
  • Feeling relief when meetings end but tension returns

This circle is the next level.

This is not about quitting alcohol. You already did that.

This is about building the internal system that makes sobriety sustainable.

 If you are here, you already know the pattern you are done with. 

This space exists because quitting the substance is only the beginning.

 

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Why this circle exists

Most men in recovery were taught:

Stay accountable. Admit powerlessness.
Work the steps. Keep coming back.

All valuable.


What many were never taught:

• What alcohol was doing for your nervous system
• Why anger feels explosive or inaccessible
• Why grief feels destabilizing
• Why shame silently drives relapse
• How to discharge emotion instead of suppress it


Sobriety without nervous system work often feels like holding your breath.


 What actually happens when you stop using :

• Irritability increases

• Anxiety spikes

• Anger resurfaces

• Old emotions return

• Creativity feels blocked

• The nervous system panics

• Cravings appear when life feels sharp 


 This circle teaches you how to:

• Hold withdrawal with compassion instead of force

• Discharge stored emotion safely

• Work with cravings somatically, not just mentally

• Rebuild creativity and calm from inside the body

• Stay honest without shame

• Stay consistent 


Sobriety becomes sustainable when the body learns what to do with life again. 

The Psychological Reality about Alcohol

Alcohol is rarely about alcohol.

Research in trauma psychology, attachment theory, and neuroscience shows alcohol often functions as:

  • Stress regulation
  • Emotional anesthesia
  • Social armor
  • Anger suppression
  • Relief from internal pressure

Many men grew up in environments where:

  • Crying was discouraged
  • Anger was punished
  • Vulnerability was unsafe
  • Emotional language was never taught


When emotion has no outlet, the body stores it.

When the body stores it long enough, it looks for relief and alcohol becomes the fastest exit.

We address the root.
 

What happens in each session?

 Each gathering follows a fluid but intentional structure:  

What You Will Build

• Emotional literacy and stability

• Nervous system regulation 

• Reduced relapse risk 

• Integrated anger and emotions

• Clearer boundaries 

• Stronger internal stability

Who This Is For

Men who:

  • Are alcohol sober
  • Attend or have attended AA
  • Want deeper emotional capacity
  • Are tired of white-knuckling
  • Want tools, not just talk
  • Are ready to do real work

Structure + Price of the program

4-Week Clinical Somatic Sobriety Series


Weekly 75 to 90-minute sessions + Small group format of 12 participants + Confidential. Focused. 

Structured progression: 

Week 1 – The Nervous System and Alcohol 

Week 2 – Anger, Suppression, and Self-Destruction 

Week 3 – Shame, Identity, and Emotional Repair 

Week 4 – Integration, and Long-Term Stability


Important: This circle does not replace: One on One Therapy, Medical care or AA or sponsor support. It complements them.


Pricing: $150 per clinical sober session per person.

This is a psychological service that may be covered under your extended health benefits. 

Please check with your provider to confirm coverage before registering. 

Transform Your Life with Elam'S Hands

Life Coaching

Mental Health Counseling

Mental Health Counseling

Our experienced life coaches will help you identify your goals, overcome obstacles, and create a plan to achieve success in all areas of your life. From career to relationships, we've got you covered.

Mental Health Counseling

Mental Health Counseling

Mental Health Counseling

Our licensed therapists provide individualized therapy sessions to help you manage anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns. We use evidence-based techniques to help you achieve long-term mental wellness.

Mindfulness Meditation

Mental Health Counseling

Mindfulness Meditation

Our mindfulness meditation classes will help you reduce stress, improve focus, and increase overall well-being. Our expert instructors will guide you through various meditation techniques to help you find inner peace.

Fitness Classes

Healthy Eating Workshops

Mindfulness Meditation

Our fitness classes are designed to help you get in shape and feel great. From high-intensity interval training to yoga, we offer a variety of classes to suit your fitness level and goals.

Healthy Eating Workshops

Healthy Eating Workshops

Healthy Eating Workshops

Our nutrition experts will teach you how to eat for optimal health. From meal planning to grocery shopping, our workshops cover all aspects of healthy eating.

Holistic Healing

Healthy Eating Workshops

Healthy Eating Workshops

Experience the benefits of alternative therapies like acupuncture, Reiki, and aromatherapy. Our licensed practitioners will help you balance your mind, body, and spirit.

Pricing

This is a psychological

$150

 

Join the Sober Somatic Circle

 Join the Clinical Sober Somatic Circle  

Commit to honesty 

Let your body learn a new way

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