
You got sober, now what?
If you’re alcohol-free but still:
This circle is the next level.
This is not about quitting alcohol. You already did that.
This is about building the internal system that makes sobriety sustainable.
If you are here, you already know the pattern you are done with.
Most men in recovery were taught:
Stay accountable. Admit powerlessness.
Work the steps. Keep coming back.
All valuable.
What many were never taught:
• What alcohol was doing for your nervous system
• Why anger feels explosive or inaccessible
• Why grief feels destabilizing
• Why shame silently drives relapse
• How to discharge emotion instead of suppress it
Sobriety without nervous system work often feels like holding your breath.
What actually happens when you stop using :
• Irritability increases
• Anxiety spikes
• Anger resurfaces
• Old emotions return
• Creativity feels blocked
• The nervous system panics
• Cravings appear when life feels sharp
This circle teaches you how to:
• Hold withdrawal with compassion instead of force
• Discharge stored emotion safely
• Work with cravings somatically, not just mentally
• Rebuild creativity and calm from inside the body
• Stay honest without shame
• Stay consistent
Sobriety becomes sustainable when the body learns what to do with life again.


Research in trauma psychology, attachment theory, and neuroscience shows alcohol often functions as:
Many men grew up in environments where:
When emotion has no outlet, the body stores it.
When the body stores it long enough, it looks for relief and alcohol becomes the fastest exit.
We address the root.
Each gathering follows a fluid but intentional structure:
• Emotional literacy
• Nervous system regulation
• Reduced relapse risk
• Integrated anger
• Access to grief without collapse
• Clearer boundaries
• Stronger internal stability
This is not about becoming softer. It is about becoming stable.
Men who:
4-Week Clinical Somatic Sobriety Series
Weekly 90-minute sessions
Small group format of 12 participants
Structured progression:
Week 1 – The Nervous System and Alcohol
Week 2 – Anger, Suppression, and Self-Destruction
Week 3 – Shame, Identity, and Emotional Repair
Week 4 – Cravings, Regulation, and Long-Term Stability
Confidential. Focused. Direct.
This circle does not replace:
It complements them.

$150
Join the Clinical Sober Somatic Circle
Commit to honesty
Let your body learn a new way
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